What can easily happen to anyone when one parent is a bit unstable, is that your children become weaponized by the controlling spouse.
I’ve been involved with Erasing Family as an ambassador and have attended meetings that are soul-crushing, to say the least. When a parent is targeted with lies, warped stories, or even a slight dissing of their life children amplify what they hear and it becomes their reality.
My ex became an enabling parent. I know she is reading this right now so I hope she’ll take an hour and watch this documentary. I know she won’t turn herself into the police for child abuse, but as you’ll find out through studying this topic, it is nothing less than child abuse.
Children, under no circumstances, hate a parent on their own accord. It’s not possible when you read the documentation from psychiatrists who study this subject. Children, therefore, are made to believe 1) that there is another truth they have to believe or 2) if they don’t hate the targeted parent then the enabler will lose their child’s love. Imagine putting a not-so-mature brain in that situation.
nificant other to agree on all pertinent issues. If you cannot come to an agreement, the divorce process may seem to be a very difficult time.
Here’s a Roundup of Articles About “Kids Affected By Divorce” Divorcing has never been easy, and it becomes even more sensitive when children are involved. As you deal with the pain and emotional torture, your children will also be battling various issues. It’s essential to understand the impact of divorce on kids to help them … Divorce With Kids Round-Up… A Discussion About “Kids Affected By Divorce”
The articles we’ve put together here should give you a great insight into how divorce can affect children’s mental health, what you can do yourself about it, and some information about seeking help to prevent or resolve issues you’re facing.
We’ll discuss angry kids after a divorce through the eyes of four different authors.
You can get ahead of having angry kids after divorce by understanding what they are going through.
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Getting divorced still feels like a personal failure, even if it is more common than ever. What we forget is that divorce is not an event, but a process. By viewing it as a long-term project, we are less likely to pressure ourselves and any children that might be caught up in the circumstances. Should We Stay … Learn More About Divorce With Kids
Entering a co-parenting situation doesn’t have to negatively impact your kids or your relationship with them. Here are 5 tips to conquer co-parenting.
Such children’s books on divorce can provide healing and help kids find the words to talk about their feelings.
Some kids “recover” from divorce of their parents faster than others. What can you do to help them?
Will divorce affect your child? This is not 100% certain. However, to some degree, it will affect your child.
In general, divorce settlements are relatively simple. But when you add a child or children to the proceedings there is a whole extra set of hurdles such as custody and the child’s emotions.
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